Long distance ex ignoring me?

I met this boy when he was in my city (where I go to college) during the summer, but he goes to school in another state. we kept up anyway by phone, decided to keep it light but it naturally led to us thinking we were each others. When he visited Thanksgiving, we got even closer and I brought on the relationship discussion. To put it short, he said we're too far apart and he was cheated on in a long distance relationship, etc etc but then we became bf/gf anyway. He went home the following day and called me that night after not answering his phone and he ended it. He said he thought about things and it really couldn't work, that we're young and we rushed things, that relationships need people near each other, etc etc. anyways, he was kind've really cold about it. I was annoying and kept him on the phone a while trying to change his mind and it pissed him off and he started saying we weren't compatible but didn't have any good reasons for it. anyway, 5 days later without contact, I thought about things and realized he was right, it couldn't work without having to structure our lives around each other just to get to know each other more. I would bicker with him often. I think the pressure of rushing and seeing so little of each other caused the majority of it. Anyway, I caved and called/texted him. He's going to be here in a week and a half or less for Christmas break and I'd still like to see him. I just told him in the text that he was right it couldn't work but why end up harboring ill feelings for each other and ignoring each other. i told him id like to see him when he came back without the pressure and bickering that rushing caused. I asked if that would be cool with him. No response. It's the day after. I texted him again today because he works constantly in studio and leaves his phone at home or it dies and he doesnt charge it. I asked "is dat a yesh or no? youre phone strange so im not sure if i should take a hint" and 3 hours later and no response. i dont know what to do. I dont know what I want from seeing him again, I just hate us being on bad terms when I had so much fun with him and really liked him in a way I had never liked anyone before. He plans to go for grad school in NY in 2 years and I just want us to stay in each others lives and really get to know each other. What should I do? Why won't be talk to me? it just seems so silly to end up hating each other when it was the distance that made everything so complicated.